"The role of the artist is exactly the same as the role of the lover. If I love you, I have to make you conscious of the things you don’t see.”
“Art enables us to find ourselves and lose ourselves at the same time.”
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All art is a kind of confession, more or less oblique. All artists, if they are to survive, are forced, at last, to tell the whole story, to vomit the anguish up. Baldwin, James
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1. Routines are good: Ours includes a daily, post-breakfast dance session. There’s nobody else around except you and the baby, so own it and be ridiculous.
2. Beatboxing: It stops her crying every time. That and 89.9 all classical FM radio with our favorite host, Christa Wessel.
3. Drop in baby/toddler gyms (like the one at Peninsula Park): An entire baby-proofed gymnasium of padded mats, balls, and tunnels? It’s a wonderland for her and my chance to lie on the floor for only a buck. We’re there every day.
4. Lay off Instagram: As much as I want to document every cute thing she does, the moments I’ll never forget are the ones where my phone is in the bottom of the diaper bag.
5. Be patient: Some days it can feel isolating when most of the other stay-at-home parents you see are white women. But eventually you’ll find other parents you relate to.
6. Stretch: I make a point to stretch whenever I’m on the floor playing with her. Gotta stay limber to keep up as she figures out this world.
Perseverance, secret of all triumphs.
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